Have we not all said "I'm stuck in traffic"? Now think about it. We talk like we are victims in our car who are stuck amidst all these other people in cars clogging the roads. But of course we ARE the traffic. We are in our car clogging up the road complaining that we are amidst all these OTHER cars clogging up the road. YOU are the TRAFFIC THAT OTHERS ARE COMPLAINING ABOUT. Just seems like a huge dodging of responsibility for a problem we are part of.